r/memes • u/dlo_doski • 5h ago

It was all a big fat lie

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u/Haerrlekin 5h ago

You don't go to the gym for the girls. You go to the gym for you.

The girls come when they see how happy you are with yourself.

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u/Aurrroor 4h ago

The real gains were the self-confidence you built along the way. The girls were never part of the program 😭

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u/Tigt0ne 3h ago

I got back on the wagon and lost 30lbs. My wife complains I'm too little now. My boys at the gym? They see me and appreciate my hard work.

Can't win em all. 

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u/Weird_Angry_Kid 3h ago

You lost fat and now you gotta replaced it with muscle, it's time to bulk up. Your wife wants you to be big.

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u/SPRMOVRLRD-TMOperaO 3h ago

Yeah she wants her cuddly bear back, who's she gonna hug when she sleeps now? A pillow?/s

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u/WearyRate4998 3h ago

Maybe you can switch the wife with one of you homies? Sounds like a good fit

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u/Sj_91teppoTappo 3h ago

Why, why, why! I don't like diiiicks.... \s

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u/TAoie83 2h ago

There’s a new gaynasium

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u/poetic_dwarf 2h ago

cocks gun

"Always has been"

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u/waffle_Piraat_1 2h ago

Not quite the same but I've trimmed down about 5kg whilst adding muscle mass and apart from a throwaway comment from the wife all my love comes from the guys in the gym and my mates who notice the difference.

I wasn't doing it for female attention at all, but made me laugh that it's all male attention I'm getting.

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u/Googleitgenius 2h ago

But ...but...goog- "The statement that "every 20-30 lbs of extra weight can result in up to 1/2 inch [of] penis length" is substantially accurate regarding visible length, though medical sources often cite a slightly higher weight threshold for a full inch of gain. " ;p

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u/deaglebingo 1h ago

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gainz

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u/tommos 2h ago

That self confidence turns slowly into body dysmorphia as you go deeper down the lifting rabbit hole

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u/Beautiful-Aerie7576 4h ago

They also leave when you get too buff, but in my experience that also often correlates with folks who are never happy with themselves.

Not being shady. Love my big gym bros. But some have serious body image issues, I won’t pretend that’s not true.

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u/BustyCrustaceans011 4h ago

Sounds less about them getting too buff and more about them being constantly dissatisfied with their personal image/body. Seems kinda like anorexia but the opposite.

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u/Boudi04 My thumbs hurt 4h ago

I've heard the term bigorexia to describe this actually. It's definitely a thing.

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u/S-Tier_Commenter 2h ago

It's funny, because anorexia comes from Greek for "no hunger". Bigorexia should be megalo-orexia, for big hunger.

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u/Drama79 2h ago

Manorexia has been around forever. Male body dysmorphia and eating disorders are massive, but under-reported still. Thankfully there's an increased awareness these days.

And as someone irritating online pointed out - men work out for other men. Women don't care. The focus should always be "does this make me feel better about myself and/or my health". If it starts negatively affecting either, you need to course correct.

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u/Jiujitsumonkey707 3h ago

Body dysmorphia comes in all shapes and sizes unfortunately

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u/Beautiful-Aerie7576 3h ago

That was that was what I was trying to convey with my second paragraph, yeah, I agree.

It’s almost exactly like anorexia, in fact. One qualifying symptom of anorexia is an unhealthy drive to exercise for excessive periods of time, and the eating for bodybuilders is like an ED guide for men. A lot of them have an obsession with keeping their body fat percentage low as well. The qualifiers are almost identical.

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u/NewSauerKraus 2h ago

A lot of bodybuilder literally have eating disorders too. Boiled chicken and white rice every day because seasoning adds a nanogram of carbs or as self-punishment.

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u/Daniel_Melzer Forever alone 3h ago

Oh no i accidentally got too buff all of a sudden.

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u/P_weezey951 3h ago

The issue isnt usually with you being too buff... Its that in order to get that buff, your life becomes about the gym.

You eat and breathe fitness content, and aometimes she just wants a pizza and a shitty movie :p

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u/Yashema 3h ago

They also don't really care if you have more than a moderately fit body (aka the dad bod), especially if you are taking college educated types. It's really your unalterable physical appearance that determine how attractive women find you. 

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u/Undoubtably_me 4h ago

Nah you can go to gym and impress people, but it'll be mostly men who'll be impressed by your gains

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u/Danro1984 4h ago

You are going to a place where you look at other sweaty semi naked mens that look back at you.

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u/The049 Died of Ligma 3h ago

Also, juicing yourself up won't make you hot for many people

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u/hadoopken 3h ago

No thanks, I go gym because bros will compliment my arms

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u/Bourbonaddicted 4h ago

They can’t se us happy bro

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u/briksauce 4h ago

The only emotion they want to see is your O face.

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u/Miserable_Science_54 4h ago

Golden words, I'll add it to my quotes list

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u/Nickulator95 3h ago

Going to the gym doesn't make me happy. I'm perfectly satisfied with how I already look.

Doing what makes me happy, gaming and making music, hasn't made any girls interested in me.

Conclusion: I'm just too ugly or don't deserve to ever be loved.

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u/GrayMech 3h ago

They never said going to the gym will make you happy. They said you go to the gym for you and that the girls come when they see how happy you are with yourself. Two separate statements. Going to the gym for yourself is going to make sure you're healthy and in shape, for some people that brings them happiness but even if it doesn't directly bring you happiness, I'm sure being able to do the other things you love with ease without worrying about your physical health would bring you joy, idk tho I'm just a guy on Reddit, what do I know

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u/Estropolim 21m ago

Yes, and he just pointed out that the second statement is false, because he is happy with himself and girls aren't coming.

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u/nonotan 2h ago

Gaming is unlikely to help, but making music can definitely help attract girls (unless you're focusing on a genre that is a sausage fest, I guess)

Anyway, the whole self-confidence angle is really just a proxy for being pleasant to be around. People with low self-confidence can definitely be downers, exude desperation, become clingy, etc, all of which drives people away. But the opposite extreme (people full of themselves) can be just as bad for your social life. Yet there are plenty of people on both ends who are actually great to be around, it's ultimately just correlation, not something inevitable.

Just be nice to be around, avoid being manipulative to try to get the result you want (no matter what variety of manipulation, people can tell), look like you can take care of yourself (not even talking about going to the gym, just don't look or smell like a hobo, don't be morbidly obese, etc), and put yourself in situations where you at least have the chance to interact with people of your preferred gender; they aren't going to come looking for you (or hit it so big with your music people do come knocking, I suppose, but that seems harder)

Sure, how naturally handsome you are will have a big effect on how many of those you interact with end up finding you attractive enough to date or w/e, but that's not something you can control, so no point worrying about it. In any case, you don't need a large percentage of the population to actively want to date you -- finding a couple of people who subjectively like you well enough is a very low barrier that can be met by virtually everybody, no matter how "hideous" (turns out people have very different tastes)

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u/Capital_Past69 2h ago

The girls see how happy you are playing with yourself and then they flock to you

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u/Weird_Angry_Kid 3h ago

It's the belief that you are ugly and don't deserve to be loved that makes girls not be interested in you.

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u/CallMeOaksie 1h ago

This feels super dishonest. Like especially if you’re starting from a position of being physically unattractive. Like “women don’t find you attractive but if you dare to take their opinion seriously then that’s what actually made you unattractive” you seem to be missing the concept that people’s personalities and self image are always shaped on the way other people view them. It genuinely comes across like you’ve got the whole thing backwards. People don’t find someone unattractive because that person believes themselves to be unattractive, that person believes themself to be unattractive because other people find them unattractive.

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u/Haerrlekin 2h ago

This. My big turning point was probably just a few months after I had started exercising more. I was eating better, feeling better, and had more money in my pocket because I was eating out less.

By that point I had already started getting more attention from women but hadn't really registered it enough to make the connection until my mom made a comment over dinner.

She told me I smiled more often now, and I realized she was right. I'd been smiling and laughing a lot more often. Telling more jokes, singing along to music, and just being happy.

And it clicked all at once that I was treating myself better, and so I was happier. And because I was happier, more people were interested in me.

I did it for me, and me is who it benefited. It just had a secondary benefit of making other people interested as well. Suddenly, even my niche hobbies and interests that nobody gives a shit about became interesting to people because I was having fun talking about them.

My current girlfriend I pulled by yapping her ear off for like 45 minutes about Sonic lore while killing time on the train home for work (she had a keychain and I thought it was cute so I commented on it.)

She gave me her number and asked to chat again. We've been going steady for about 6 months now.

So yeah, being happy is attractive. And having interests is also attractive. And shame/disgust with oneself is very, very unattractive- however sympathetic that cause might be.

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u/throwawayformobile78 3h ago

Well I’ll be happy with myself when I pull some girls.

Welp.. there’s that I guess lmao.

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u/Midnight28Rider 3h ago

For real. The more I love myself the better 'luck' I have and I got a dad bod AF. Know yourself and be OK with it and the right women will find you attractive and the wrong ones won't.

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u/atmoose 4h ago

Was working out supposed to make me happy with myself?

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u/Doogiemon 3h ago

Yes and no.

Find a high stress job and go to the gyms near that when they typically get off work.

Those people are looking for bad decisions.

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u/dreamrpg 3h ago

Girls come when you get a good job :) Better both, gym and a good job.

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u/Kitsui38 3h ago

The first part is true. The second is another lie

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u/IlluminaViam 2h ago

Being happy with yourself doesn't mean staying in the comfort zone too. Gym bros can be some of the most awkward and shy people around women.

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u/Scorpion2k4u 2h ago

and the guys posting gym pics are doing it for other guys not girls. They just often don't realize that.

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u/mbnmac 3h ago

If you're goign tot he gym for an aesthetic, it's for men.

Gym bros are unironically partaking in gay culture, whether they know it or not when they're getting buff to attract a partner.

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u/TemoteJiku 2h ago

Beauty is a concept that goes further than that, so even in isolated cases, it's not true. Otherwise most things would be pretty one dimensional.

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u/Lucas9041 2h ago

You definitely wrote words!

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u/PrizeShirt1 4h ago

It's kinda funny that my wife said when she first met me, she was afraid of how big my arms were. Now that I'm old, Ive learned that functional strength, flexibility and cardio means so much more.

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u/Just-Connection5960 3h ago

This.

& Also consider lots of people who go to the gym don't know tf they're doing and have 0 results

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u/SwiftNoah 3h ago

“There is no secret ingredient. It’s just you.”

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u/Lucas9041 2h ago

Speak for yourself! We do it for the bros

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u/terryyouknow 2h ago

You go to the gym for the bois

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u/GoodBlob 1h ago

Why is Reddit always trying to convince me that being physically attractive doesn’t attract people?

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u/knightsofgel 1h ago

Getting physically fit at the gym will certainly make you more attractive and is only a positive but at the end of the day if you have a shit personality, are weird/awkward, uninteresting, and have a shitty career then getting buff isn’t going to overcome that

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u/GoodBlob 1h ago

I get being weird/awkward as a dealbreaker, but I’ve seen people with some terrible personalities being flawless with woman. In fact, I would go as far as saying violent/emotional types are better with woman in general where I’m from

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u/knightsofgel 1h ago

Maybe they’re more interesting with better jobs and faces too.

It’s all multilayered and complicated

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u/user-the-name 43m ago

Confidence. Lots of terrible people are also confident. And that is the one biggest thing that works.

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u/CallMeOaksie 1h ago

What if you can’t be happy with yourself until you’ve been loved romantically? Are you just stuck in the permanent “you need a job for experience, but you need experience for a job” loop?

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u/Octoboy1 1h ago

Girls don't care how in shape in you are. The other gym bros do though

I was at the beach with my Mrs the other week and I saw this guy, huge, jacked, walking protein factory. I was in awe

I nudged my Mrs, "look at this fucking guy!" She glanced up once and said "oh yeah hes big" and then went back to her book. Didn't give a shit

My day however, was completely made

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u/AOKeiTruck 34m ago

As a fat dude who has pull, happy with yourself is super important

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u/WilmaTonguefit 4h ago

PREACH BROTHER! This is exactly it. Girls love guys who are confident in themselves. No better way to gain confidence than to look good. No better way to look good than to be in shape.

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u/Cbxrg 4h ago

Hell nah. I go to the gym for hoes. so where the girls at

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u/Bad_Decis10ns 4h ago

Nah that’s false. They definitely notice. And it most definitely gives you an advantage over men shaped like bags of milk

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u/Agile-Importance-673 3h ago

Tell that to dad bod summer

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u/Castle_Five 4h ago

Oh, is that all that's needed? Well, I was way happier sitting on my fat ass playing vidya than sweating at the gym 3x per week. So I can cancel my gym membership and skip a step?

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u/Daniel_Melzer Forever alone 3h ago

Are you happy when inbetween matches you stand up and look in the mirror? Do you smell your crusty gaming chair and think „yeah i‘m sexy as fugg today“?

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u/Castle_Five 3h ago

Accidentally broke the mirror 3 years ago and haven't bothered to replace it yet. Will get around to it eventually. Can't even really see my body anyway because the sweat causes the empty wrappers in my gamer nest to stick to my skin. I call it my "carapace".

Anyway, yeah, I'd definitely come off a passionate and confident when I show the girl how many times I prestiged and my elite gear stash. Also my achievements only <1% of players have. She'll know she has a real catch then.

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u/Cbxrg 5h ago

The only attention you'll get is from dudes who'll tell you "You looking big bro" and that's enough

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u/AestheticMirror trans rights 4h ago

I saw a dude yesterday with forearm the size of my bicep, blew my mind

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u/ChiefClockObsidian 4h ago

Well, 4 is twice as much as 2

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u/reddsht 2h ago

"blew my mind "

And load

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u/FudgeRadiant_ 3h ago

Honestly, "looking big bro" hits harder than a "you're cute" at this point

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u/AlignmentProblem 3h ago

I had rather good success going from skinny-fat to kinda buff when I was younger, and it had a non-trivial effect on my dating success.

That said, I didn't turn into a cloud monster. Going from the bottom 25% most fit men in the average room to the top 25% was plenty. That's about the sweet spot before rapidly diminishing returns, and it's achievable within about a year of consistent effort for most men (assuming your diet is on-point). Pushing much further tends to be neutral or negative for heterosexual dating success.

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u/Murky-Relation481 1h ago

Men vastly overestimate how much physical attraction plays in a woman's interest in a man. Yah don't be 400lbs but you don't even have to be that fit to gave good success if your personality is attractive. Being funny and smart and quick witted goes a long ways.

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u/bronzelifematter 2h ago

And you reply "thanks bro, wanna touch it? Give it a few squeeze?"

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u/Thedumbass_the5th 2h ago

That's a win, at least they can truly appreciate how much work it takes to grow it.

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u/LunaticcGaming 4h ago

Now look at the list of men you pulled

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u/shaolynx 4h ago

He pulled men?

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u/The_Frostweaver 3h ago

How do you think firemen get so swole? They be pulling men constantly!

What do you lift? Metal bars? Amateur hour.

Real men lift men!

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u/ALunarBaeguette 2h ago

from down under

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u/i-heart-penis 3h ago

I am one of them. I go to gym for window shopping. I can't afford bringing them home but I can look.

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u/No_Inevitable_8189 4h ago

The truth is: the gym is for you and not for somebody else
https://giphy.com/gifs/13otafNEq8xog8

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u/Stormfly 9m ago

I love that OP is out here like "The Gym didn't fix my problems!" and everyone is proving this film right by showing him that his physical appearance was never the problem.

There is no secret ingredient that makes you suddenly attractive.

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u/InternationalArm1938 5h ago

"We don't go to the gym for some hoe"

https://giphy.com/gifs/CAYVZA5NRb529kKQUc

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u/LowkeyGirll 4h ago

Things I pulled at the gym

Muscles ✅

Groin✅

Girls ❌

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u/MAKstyles75 4h ago

Don't forget unannounced sciatica ✅

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u/Maleficent-Agent-477 4h ago

Obviously I’m not going to the gym for a gardening tool


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u/FastGooner77 3h ago

We go to the gym so we can confidently raise our hands when Goggins asks about who is gonna carry the boats and the logs.

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u/OtherwiseLuck888 5h ago

But how many gays u have pulled?

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u/bearsheperd iwrestledabeartwice 4h ago

I’ve personally been hit on by like 3x the gay dudes than I have been by women

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u/LastEsotericist 4h ago

were any of them the bears you wrestled?

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u/relapse9999 4h ago

Did you know there was a band called iwrestledabearonce

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u/East-Technician2015 3h ago

I can’t wear 5 inch shorts or I’ll get hit on by gay gymbos.

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u/ExistentialPOV 4h ago

the gays even have a greater body than some dudes is what surprised me. and they are clean as a whistle.

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u/Nemisis_007 Flair Loading.... 5h ago

So many looks from the lads.

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u/somesomeaus 3h ago

*Winks*

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u/Plastic_Music182 4h ago

Me looking at the list of girls I've pulled ever

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u/Kenzore1212 3h ago

It’s all a hoax. Just do what you want, even if that is chasing girls. I think it’s important to enjoy the process and the results tho.

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u/johnnyrambo24 4h ago

Only other muscle dudes will really appreciate your muscles and gym attendance

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u/Ifukkin4gotmyname 4h ago

Face attractiveness matters as well.

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u/aure__entuluva 1h ago

I see a lot of average to ugly looking guys that have wives and girlfriends.

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u/The_Mentalist_7 5h ago

Look carefully that's the weight you have lost

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u/HowardBateman 4h ago

One very big lesson I've learned too late: girls don't like good looking guys. Girls like the CONFIDENCE of good looking guys. You can be ugly but confident - you will be swimming in girls (if you so desire).

I've seen the ugliest, dumbest assholes pull 9/10 girls just by being confident.

But don't mistake confidence with arrogance. Don't be arrogant.

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u/Murky-Relation481 1h ago

This confidence and humility go hand in hand and if you're smart and funny you can pull a lot of women, women most guys who think the gym is the only thing that matters would be envious of.

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u/jbFanClubPresident 5h ago

Switch to guys and you’ll lose count after a while.

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u/bennogaming 4h ago

Me looking at the list of girls I've pulled in my 21 years of being alive

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u/minus_minus 4h ago

SKA-DOOSHHH!!!

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u/Friendly_Funny_3760 3h ago

Bro went to the gym and got stronger just to discover the dating buff was a myth.

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u/McSoapster Died of Ligma 2h ago

Strange, you mean women want more then a trained body?
https://giphy.com/gifs/26ufdipQqU2lhNA4g

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u/reaven3958 1h ago

The girl worth pulling will tell you youre perfect just how you are, and support you going to get healthy but just want you for you.

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u/namegoeswhere 1h ago

It's like motorcycles.

You think it'll attract the opposite sex, when in reality it's just old men reminiscing about their youth with you in parking lots...

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u/Stranger-Tingzz 4h ago

Confidence is the key here. Set goals for yourself, make progress, and see your physique transform. That alone has definitely boosted my confidence more than blindly thinking girls will approach me just because I workout.

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u/Ambipoms_Offical 4h ago

Turns manosphere dudes lied to us, who couldve known?

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u/Lari_Fee 5h ago

At some point of life the Dad bod is more attraktive than the "Superfit" Style.

Just my opinion of course.

(I think that a good Fitness is very important for health!)

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u/justsomedudeiguess_ 5h ago

I'm built like an Indian man who owns a 7 eleven and my gf will just look at me and say "all mine". I lucked out

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u/I-Have-An-Alibi 3h ago

Im 5'8, skinny nerd and my wife will put her hand on my crotch and say "I need a hot dicking".

God I love her.

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u/Boudi04 My thumbs hurt 4h ago

I want to clarify for the other men in this comment section that the typical dadbod women usually refer to doesn't mean overweight / completely unfit.

From what I've seen, they usually are referring to a pretty big build, just not lean.

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u/Xanxan95 4h ago

Dad bod is a kinda muscular build with some fat. I can't hit that unless I go to the gym, sadly.

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u/Weim47 4h ago

Muscles don't fix personalities

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u/YNKWTSF 3h ago

You're describing a very small portion of gym goers. The majority of men (and women) go to the gym to stay healthy and to be and look fit. Taking care of your health and having some form of discipline is a character trait everyone should want in a partner.

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u/TheLastofKrupuk 3h ago edited 3h ago

The manosphere have warped young male to think that being muscular = women. When the one with the biggest female fanbase are mostly twinks lmao.

Edit: since some of you obsess over the body too much. This is my hint that some of you need to learn how to groom yourself. Learn how to style your hair, how to dress up, do skincare, and how to use makeup. Plus you are going to have the same interest as your partner if you do this.

Going to the gym gets rid of the beer belly. Anything after that is diminishing return.

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u/The_Grogfather 3h ago

This isn’t even a manosphere thing. A large percentage of women will prefer men who look fit and healthy, which muscles are usually indicative of. Just like a large percentage of men prefer women who look fit and healthy too

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u/Murky-Relation481 57m ago

Prefer is a strong word and it's clear, your post included, that a lot of men project what matters to them in attraction on to women. If you're ripped but an unfunny dumb asshole you're going to have very slim pickings. Also most of those things are far easier to achieve success in than going to the gym for the average person.

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u/Yashema 3h ago

Generally men who are taller, have full heads of hair, pleasant faces and are big (not fat, but not necessarily muscular either) have the biggest pull, outside of fame or money. 

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u/Prestigious_Shift245 4h ago

Me look at the list of women I've ever managed to date (im in my mid twenties and screwed).

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u/boss-lady101 4h ago

Bro went to the gym to get stronger, not to get a girlfriend 😭💀

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u/darkness_calming ifone user 4h ago

But what about the list of guys, though

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u/theCOLLECTOR7250 4h ago

Expectation vs reality be like.....

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u/FaPaDa 2h ago edited 1h ago

Confidence works better than 300 reps daily.

p.s: ofcourse there is a certain level at which you will turn off girls.
But:
Average with confidence > Good Looking but insecure 99/100 times.

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u/Party_Boysenberry771 2h ago

Thats why I'm fat again

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u/ShAped_Ink Dark Mode Elitist 2h ago

You go there for yourself, not girls.

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u/NewSauerKraus 2h ago

Yeah but now there are so many guys mirin your gains.

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u/ThisHomework1819 2h ago

The only thing which you could pull is horny Guys.

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u/-Laffi- 2h ago

I think the gym part is to feel good about yourself.

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u/Draiye 1h ago

As a dude, the best girl I ever pulled was me. I'm best girl, and sometimes it takes a man to be best girl.

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u/kidanokun 1h ago

self improvement stuff are just ads for gyms

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u/ChaoTJ 1h ago

they still like money and jerks, that will never change

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u/DRUGMUSIC_ 39m ago

a gym body only attracts men... should have told you this before you started.

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u/justsomedudeiguess_ 5h ago

Being fit isn't a replacement for a good personality

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u/CallMeOaksie 1h ago

“You need a good personality to find a partner” mfs when you ask them how and why they think men who beat and kill their wives have better personalities than the guy they’re currently shitting on for *checks notes\* thinking that being fitter will make him more attractive and help him find a partner:

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u/shygirl2005x 4h ago

those girls in yoga suits are making spicy content instead of talking with you, yeah that's a 2026 bummer

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u/Kyobarry 4h ago

Get married... They will come banging on your door for attention,lol.

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u/Fellarm 4h ago

You doing it wrong đŸ„ƒđŸ—żive had pretty good success, i get complimented more, invited out more, they initiate more

But im also not trying too hard, im confident, open and committed to being the best me, just chill and be cool

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u/Soapykorean 4h ago

If girls like guys who work out a lot then how come every couple I see is a 7-10 girl with a guy who is skinny but somehow looks pregnant ?

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u/bestbefour 3h ago

Because you’re bitter and lonely.

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u/bigeasy19 3h ago

Or they only see people on TV sitcoms

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u/I-Have-An-Alibi 3h ago

Rating people is gross. This is why you're alone. Looks aren't everything.

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u/OrangeLightning235 4h ago

Tbh, the girls only want money, and they'll leave you once you get it, there are some who don't, but they're really hard to find.

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u/I-Have-An-Alibi 3h ago

No they're really not and this is some incel level shit.

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u/top_of_the_scrote 4h ago

gotta bench 500 natty bro then you can pull men

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u/Fr05t_B1t Meme Stealer 4h ago

But the list of dudes that comment on your journey is endless

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u/Ryo_Katsuya 4h ago

Me since my birth :

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u/Hi_sam_i-am 4h ago

A motorcycle will be better, but you should ride for yourself just as you should go to the gym for yourself

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u/Deep-Initiative1849 4h ago

Dragon warrior

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u/KomithErrant 4h ago

at the very least if you look better you gonna have more confidence, even if you don't pull that's not bad

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u/PictureWestern5009 4h ago

Girls want a man who cares for himself protects himself who is confident healthy clean then they will understan you can provide the same for them

and GYM is key to all this

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u/ConfidentAd3516 4h ago

Less than before I started actually.. really just doing it for me how lame.

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u/Aullotro 4h ago

As a theatre actor, the only reason I go is to look good and maintain my health. Honestly most of my relationships with girls are all friendships, and I am quite satisfied with that. I may not have a girlfriend currently, but I do have plenty of homegirls to call at a moments notice 😅. In cruel irony, often those truly not looking for love, are the ones who stumble upon it the most.

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u/emanresu_n1 3h ago

Your homies definitely noticed

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u/-lRexl- 3h ago

Do it for your health

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u/Happy_Client7742 3h ago

Funny enough instead of attracting girls it end up attracting the supportive and motivational Gym bro

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u/Mr_Ignorant 3h ago

Going to the gym means you have a better body than before. But you still need to approach the women. They won’t just magically appear.

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u/ColdCalculus 3h ago

Also. Me when I open the project documentation.

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u/coco_melonFAN 3h ago

Funnily enough, big muscles are more likely to attract a man than a women.

I can speak from some experience as I am bisexual

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u/ldwb 3h ago

There's a true crime podcast I like, and one of their best bits is when they are talking about the weirdest creepiest dudes, like a murderer is walking around for days with a dead bird in his pocket... and he has a girlfriend. If you don't, it's not women's fault, it's yours. Either become a better person, or lower your standards, find the kinda chick who's down with dead pocket birds.

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u/Department-of-Wario 3h ago

Sadly there are no personality gyms. You have to figure that out on your own.

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u/GuardaAranha 3h ago

Tbf , before going to the gym you were getting negative amount of girls and getting beat up just for looking goofy. So still an improvement.

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u/ElDonute 3h ago

Funny enough I've actually gotten more... I'm not even buffed, I'm just lean and I have 2 currently drooling over me... At the same time. I didn't go to the gym for the girls either, I went because I don't want back pain in my 30s

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u/n3t3r0 3h ago

Look carefully at the scroll, and you'll see then only person worthy of your love.

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u/MegasVN69 3h ago

now check how many gym bro you pulled

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u/Psychological_Dig592 3h ago

I never went to gym for pulling someone, I pull and push weights

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u/Legal-Ad5998 3h ago

It's also what you stop doing....when you go to the gym you stop going to the bar, stop eating our, stop going to nightclubs

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u/Faithless_Fate_21 3h ago

Hey, you feel lighter and better about yourself. You also developed as sense of discipline. Still a W for me bro